Burgin/Longhenry Debate on Divorce/Remarriage
Max Burgin's Second Rebuttal
Proposition:
The New Testament does not extend the privilege of remarriage to a person put away for having committed adultery.
Affirm: Ethan R. Longhenry
Deny: Max Burgin
The time has come again to address Ethan's material, which I am more than happy
to do. He still has not denied the proposition, in spite of his responsibility to do
so, but has gone on at length, with other matters, including making conclusions
with the wrong people in mind. One of these days he might control himself, and
stay with the point, and address it.
I again use the same format as before, quoting him as ELDV with my response as
MAX to follow.
ELDV:
We see further that he has not even ventured to answer many of the significant
questions asked in the first rebuttal. We do see, however, more rhetoric and ad
hominems. Is this a smokescreen to attempt to divert us from the obvious facts
that Mr. Burgin does not want to deal with the truth of the issue and the
implications of his belief?
MAX. As has been pointed out before, I will refrain from commenting on Ethan's
material until I am in the denial, at which time I will deal with in great detail.
Now that I AM IN THE DENIAL I will address them.
Ethan wants the term "put away" to refer ONLY to one person - the one who did
not instigate the divorce - rather that to the fact of the divorce, both parties are
equally "put away” from the marriage - or a spouse - divorced - they are
synonyms. If it were true that it referred to people - rather than the fact of divorce
- it would prove that if the "guilty" got in first, and instigated the proceedings,
then the "innocent" would be a "put away" person - and therefore, by Ethan's
reasoning, would not have the "privilege" of remarriage - but the guilty adulterer
would. Pure sophistry. THE FACT IS, BOTH ARE EQUALLY "PUT AWAY"
FROM THE MARRIAGE - DIVORCED - SINGLE.
It is very evident that Ethan has a hang-up with the word "single" - all because he
fails to make the distinction his own "inference" states, that some are
"legitimately" "loosed" - and therefore "can marry" - his own admission -while
others can't.
Ethan keeps harping about "John and Jane" who are divorced for "irreconcilable
differences", while they have no part in the proposition, and therefore should
never be brought up.
Referring to 1Cor.7:2 you ask, "Where, Mr. Burgin, is the evidence that Paul
directs this comment to those who have been put away for adultery? Is this not
your inference derived from the text and not actually based on any specific
evidence given in this verse? We shall see his answer."
The very fact that he wrote to them - included them is ALL he said - recognized
they were "legitimately" "loosed" - to use your "inference" - and THEREFORE
RIGHTLY single -and for THAT reason did "not sin", or "commit adultery", in a
further marriage.
Then referring to verses 27-28 you said,
The statement under discussion, of course, is "art thou loosed from a wife...but
shouldest thou marry, thou hast not sinned." I will not contest that this part of the
passage is directed at one who is in a divorced statement, but I do contend that the
only person to whom Paul is speaking is one who has put away his wife for
adultery.
Then you "CONTEND" for what is in the silence of the Scriptures. The very fact
that Paul wrote to those who had been GUILTY of adultery, and said to THEM,
you have "not sinned" if you marry, proves my point - what's more you have
"inferred" the same thing.
Then you show how confused you are, by again mentioning a situation that
simply does not apply, by being very mixed up over a divorce that is NOT valid,
as opposed to one that IS. Thus forgetting your own "inference". Indeed BOTH
violate what God has joined together, but only one becomes single - that remains
the entire difference - which you have constantly ignored.
Note this quote:
We may see by these questions that the inference that Paul refers to those having
been put away for adultery in 1 Corinthians 7:2 and 7:27-28 is by no means
legitimate.
Then why did YOU draw an "inference" that said they were "legitimately"
"loosed"?
I have gone far enough, for ANY who respect Bible authority - whether
established by express command, example, or necessary inference to uphold, and
support, my position as the truth - what is even clearer is the fact that Ethan's
"inference" agrees entirely.
ELDV:
Let us again determine a very important principle:
1. Mr. Burgin keeps saying this "simple thing." 2. Mr. Burgin has not yet actually
provided any Scripture which actually PROVES his "simple thing." 3. Mr.
Burgin's "simple thing" is merely his own inference and not explicitly stated in
Scripture.
MAX. Nothing could be simpler than the truth on this subject. God has only one
reason for divorce - adultery, and He has only one reason for marriage - being
single. That's as simple as its possible to be.
ELDV:
So we shall ask Mr. Burgin again to please provide a Scripture which definitively
states that "persons who are divorced have the exact same status as persons who
are single who have never been married," that "the N.T. without discrimination,
gives the 'privilege' of marriage to all adults who are single."
MAX. Matt.19:9 By necessary inference those divorced according to the
exception are free of marriage - as single, "alone", as they were when never
married. As single as a person whose spouse has died, as single as the "instigator"
of the divorce, commonly called the "innocent party" - who everyone affirms has
the "privilege" or marriage , for no other reason that they become free of
marriage, so that they do not "commit adultery" in a further marriage.
THAT CAN BE SAID EQUALLY FOR THE "GUILTY PARTY" - all of it - but
suddenly it is decided that THEY "commit adultery" in marrying again. I would
like to know which marriage they adulterate, since the former one has ceased to
exist - making him single again, so that no adultery is possible if he marries
another single person.
ELDV:
Notice also that Mr. Burgin does not want to deal with the implications of
someone who is single who would desire to marry someone who already had a
wife and was thus polygamous. Does Mr. Burgin not want to answer this question
because it would definitively prove that single people do not have the right in
every situation to marry?
MAX. The right to marry is given to EVERY person who is single, the example
cited is not relevant because ALL the people involved are not single - it therefore
does not apply - or change the truth, in the slightest way, that ALL single people
may marry.
That no one has the right to marry a married person, without it being polygamy,
does not remove the right to marry - it is nothing but a red-herring.
ELDV:
Who has discussed their status of salvation? You've made an issue of this, not me.
MAX. I am glad you don't make an issue of it, like many do.
ELDV:
And Mr. Burgin yet again is touting his inference as "fact." Where, Mr. Burgin,
does Paul say in 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 that "persons divorced for adultery" can
marry? All I read in verses 27-28 is that a person "loosed from a wife" may
remarry-- and we have discussed previously how Paul would not contradict Jesus
by saying that anyone who was loosed for a wife for any reason could remarry.
MAX. One can be "loosed from a wife" for only one of two reasons, death of a
spouse, or divorce because of adultery. We are not talking about being "loosed"
for any reason - but about those God accepts as "loosed". Indeed Paul did not
contradict Jesus - both bound marriage - in saying one could be "reconciled"
shows clearly they were still married. Paul was not talking about THEM when he
said "art thou loosed from a wife", or, "thou hast not sinned if thou marry", he
clearly was talking about the people in either of the two situations mentioned
above - those to whom he wrote.
ELDV:
I see also that you did not dare to touch that question and issue previously
discussed-- and why would you? That issue also demonstrates amply that 1
Corinthians 7:27-28 cannot be used to determine a doctrine regarding the ability
of remarriage since there are situations that do exist where a man may be "loosed
from" a wife but does not have the right of remarriage
MAX. Name them. Paul clearly said they had "not sinned", but you think you
know better. There is no such thing as being "loosed" WITHOUT THE
NECESSARY "RIGHT" OF "LIGITAMETLY" "LOOSED" PEOPLE. This is
your very own "inference". You have contradicted yourself.
ELDV:
(Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9). Further, where does Paul ever state in 1
Corinthians 7:27-28 that the persons of 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 are being discussed?
MAX. Because he wrote to them, and ALL he said was addressed to them
ELDV:
These are all your INFERENCES-- not STATED GOSPEL FACTS.
MAX. A necessary inference IS a "gospel fact". It's OK when you make them, but
not when I do!!!!
ELDV:
Now Mr. Burgin must compare apples and oranges to make his point. Let us fight
fire with fire.
MAX. Quite apart from the fact that, if it were true, it would be fair - since both
are FRUIT - it is simply not the case. The statement shows how desperate Ethan
is, he wants to draw attention away from his responsibility - with red-herrings.
ELDV:
"Why is the doctrine of celibacy required for other sins, which are even more
grievous than divorcing for improper reasons? Such as murder? That marriage is
"forbidden" to those who have put away their wives-- as the result of their
divorces-- is not seen as a mark of false religion, shows just how bigoted the
proponents of such a doctrine of imagination, can be."
MAX. You have misquoted me, I said, "Why is NOT the doctrine of celibacy
required for other sins..."
ELDV:
Does this not sound foolish? Such ridiculous comments could be made about any
Gospel fact that could be perverted in one's mind to be seen as wrong!
MAX. If the quote was accurate, this would not be the case.
ELDV:
I would also ask Mr. Burgin to give me some Scriptural evidence that proves his
statement that "murder is more grievous than adultery."
MAX. Scripture is not needed to prove an obvious fact - murder takes away life,
adultery doesn't. This statement is typical of your confused, and befuddled
thinking. You have forgotten that though sin may vary, the reward does not - hell.
ELDV:
Is God a respecter of sins? Or is Mr. Burgin merely touting Roman Catholic
traditions in some misguided attempt to justify his doctrines?
MAX. NO!!!! God is not a "respecter of sins" - as you are - you "respect"[?]
adultery different from other sins - and place a condition on it that you don't apply
to other sins.
ELDV:
If Mr. Burgin's Scriptures are so "clear," that anyone who has been "loosed from
a" spouse may remarry, then Mr. Burgin can answer this:
If John divorces Jane for burning his toast, and receives the divorce, he has been
loosed from Jane. He can therefore remarry since he is given the right to
remarriage in 1 Corinthians 7:28.
MAX. Humbug!!!! You keep bringing up the wrong people - those divorced for
OTHER REASONS - whose divorce is not valid - hence THEY "commit
adultery" in a further marriage. You persist in bringing up people who are not in
the proposition - stay with the point.
ELDV:
Is this correct, Mr. Burgin? If not, why not? Well, it's not correct because
Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 teach that a person who divorces his wife for
such a reason CANNOT remarry without committing sin, and that if he DOES
remarry he commits adultery!
MAX. True, but we are simply not talking about THEM.
ELDV:
How can he commit this "adultery" if he has been loosed from his wife?
MAX. The simple fact is, he has not been "loosed from a wife", in spite of having
a "legal" divorce, he is not rightly "put away".
ELDV:
We have already discussed "porneia" and how it refers to deviancy from God's
plan for sexuality.
I will contend that Paul is by no means giving a blanket approval for all
remarriages in 1 Corinthians 7:28, that anyone who has violated the marriage
covenant and in so doing have attempted to "put asunder what God joined
together" is not included in this passage.
MAX. Then why did Paul write to, and include them? You "contend" for
something for which there is no Scripture - when will you cease such nonsense
and sophistry?
By your "inference" you concluded that WERE "legitimately" "loosed".
ELDV:
This refers both to those who violate the marriage covenant by seeking a divorce
for improper reasons and for those who violate the marriage covenant by
committing adultery.
MAX. Inasmuch as both are sin, the result is the same - both are rejected by God
but after a divorce, for the sin involved - only one is rightly single. This is what
you fail to realize. Your very own "inference" is what makes the difference.
ELDV:
Mr. Burgin obviously will not even dare get close to that issue, since the
conclusion is obvious:
MAX. By now you ought to know better - there is nothing you can say that will
cause any problem, or difficulty at all - only show the weakness, and humbug of
your position. AS DOES YOUR "INFERENCE".
ELDV:
Mr. Burgin declares God to be a respecter of persons, arbitrarily giving the right
of remarriage to one party who has put asunder what He joined together but
declaring celibacy for the other party guilty of the same sin!
MAX. I have pointed out the difference before, that only ONE is rightly single –
having been "put away" for his sin - single - but that the other can be "reconciled"
- married. I do not "declare God a respecter of persons" who are single - as Ethan
does.
ELDV:
So what DOES 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 say? It says that if a person has been loosed
from a wife (legitimately), that he or she can remarry if they choose. The
"legitimately" portion is my inference based on the truth that God does not lie and
does not contradict Himself, and that Paul would not approve of something that
Jesus condemned.
MAX. What a mess!!!! Firstly he recognizes - at last- that one can be
"legitimately" "loosed", and admits "they can marry" - he has conceded the debate
- that is exactly what I have been saying all along - it's good to know that, finally,
he has seen the truth.
Second, Jesus NEVER "condemned" the marriage of single people, neither did
Paul - guilty sinners, or otherwise.
You will never forget you made this statement - a Scriptural inference - showing
SOME to be "loosed" "legitimately" - by divorce for adultery - which equally
involves BOTH the "GUILTY" and the "innocent". AND since THEY are
"LIGITAMETLY" "LOOSED" 'THEY MAY MARRY" - YOUR VERY OWN
WORDS.
ELDV:
So to Mr. Burgin I ask again:
Is your doctrine of "the party put away for adultery is made single by the divorce
and thus can remarry" actually stated in 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 or is it your
inference based on the conclusions you have derived from the text?
We shall see what answer-- if any-- we shall receive.
MAX. YES, BY THE VERY SAME "INFERENCE" EVEN YOU MADE, just
mentioned. You have completely undone your case - by admitting the truth.
You chided me constantly for making an inference, and then forming a conclusion
- now, you have done the same thing - what's more you made the same
conclusion, by inference, as I did - that apart from death, of a spouse, the ONLY
way to be "legitimately" "loosed" is by divorce for adultery then, even you admit,
"they can marry".
When a person is "put away" - divorced - for adultery, he becomes "legitimately"
"loosed" from a spouse - and THEREFORE, even by your own admission, he can
then remarry. This is the conclusion YOU have reached by "inference" - thus it
becomes fact that is in harmony with N.T. TEACHING, and honours the
proposition.
You are not faithful to your very own charge.
Now to Ethan's second affirmative, which is nothing more than evasive, and
confusing sophistry - which contradicts his earlier "inference". He STILL has not
provided the passage which says that one divorced for his adultery, does not have
- as a "legitimately" "loosed" person - the "privilege" to marry. He has one more
chance - but he wont do it. As I said, this debate will close without it being done.
You are reminded, Ethan, of the question which led to this debate, it's another
way of asking the same thing, it says: Where does the Bible teach that a person
Scripturally divorced, who is guilty of adultery, must remain single? You failed to
answer it in private, now it is asked in public. Will you continue to run away from
it, OR, simple give more sophistry?
Not only do you continue with your hang-up over the word "single", you have
extended it to include the word "unmarried" - you don't seem to be able to
recognize that Paul's use of this word is accommodative - which necessarily refers
to the STATE she was in, and was required to remain in - rather than the fact she
was "unmarried", in the sense she was single - without a spouse. This truth is
obvious from the fact she could be "reconciled" - whereas if she was divorced,
"unmarried" in the sense of being single - she couldn't. Face the truth!
You said, early in the piece, "anyone who marries a divorced person, "commits
adultery". WRONG on two counts!!!!
1. When the situation involves people where no marriage exists - in any
remarriage - it's impossible for spouseless people to "commit adultery".
2. When the "innocent party", who is divorced - "put away" from the marriage,
and a spouse - even you are prepared to contradict yourself, and say she does
NOT "commit adultery", yet she is divorced - and marries another.
The very fact that she can marry, without adultery, makes it abundantly clear that
there is no marriage to adulterate - therefore the same thing applies to the other
party - otherwise, as I said earlier, you have the stupid situation of a half marriage.
If only one party "commits adultery", which marriage is adulterated - the one
which has ceased to exist by the earlier divorce, or the one which has just begun?
Or is it possible to "commit adultery" where no marriage exists?
More than that, and to make matters worse, you made this affirmation without
giving any Scripture. Are we expected to believe it simply because you said it?
You then went to the Greek and gave a lengthy explanation, which is not
necessary to know, and understand, the truth of ANYTHING that was said - and
shed no light at all on a subject that is very plain, and simple. One does not need
to be a Greek scholar to know the truth.
ELDV:
Now, I am sure that Mr. Burgin will argue that the "exception clause" of the first
statement will stand for the second statement also. Yet the "exception clause" is
very easily understood in context:
MAX. WRONG!!!! Divorce and marriage are separate issues - and therefore
require separate Scripture - what is being discussed here is divorce - I am simple
affirming that, the exception, when followed, results in BOTH parties being
genuinely single, unmarried, spouseless - whether saint or sinner, and as a result
of that FACT can THEN marry without adultery. EVEN you HAVE MADE AN
"INFERENCE" STATING THAT ONE CAN BE "LEGITIMATELY LOOSED",
AND THAT "THEY MAY MARRY". YOU CAN'T WORM YOUR WAY OUT
OF WHAT YOU CLEARLY SAID. You may try to deny that it refers to those
Scripturally divorced - "legitimately loosed" - as to the others divorced for ANY
other reason, who are NOT "legitimately loosed" - and contradict yourself,
and Scripture.
ELDV:
3. One who marries one who has been put away-- for any reason-- commits
adultery.
MAX. This is the crux of the matter. Pure supposition!!!! Who does he "commit
adultery" against in a situation where no marriage exists?"??? I notice that
AGAIN no Scripture is given to support such nonsense.
ELDV:
Therefore, the conclusion is inescapable: the person put away for adultery has not
been given the privilege of remarriage by Jesus in Matthew 5:32
MAX. You fail to realize that NOBODY is given such a "privilege" in this verse.
Another passage is needed.
ELDV:
And in Matthew 5:32, when Jesus declares that "whoever marries a divorced
woman commits adultery," He declares that those put away for adultery do not
have the privilege of marriage to another, for He declares that no one who is put
away has the privilege of marriage to another.
MAX. Jesus made no such declaration at all!!!! What He said was, "That
whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth
her to commit adultery", in other words He declared that if he DID put her away
for the cause stated, he did not cause her to commit adultery. AND who ever
marries her that is put away - for any other cause than stated - SHALL indeed
commit adultery. But God will accept her divorce if she is "legitimately" put away
- "loosed" from a spouse.
The proposition is not proved at all - no Scripture is given to support several
points at the crux of the issue. AND until such time as Ethan produces one - he
has one last chance - but of course it wont happen, he will produce plenty of
confusing sophistry, and continue with red herrings, and deal with those that are
not in the proposition - and kid himself that he has proved his case, but the readers
will know better.
By now it is very obvious to all that the very passage Ethan needs simply does not
exist, otherwise he would have used it, one that says a person who is "legitimately
loosed" is forbidden the privilege of marriage, one that says any person, saint or
sinner, who is single, being divorced from a spouse, because of adultery, does not
have the right to marry.
The three classes of people he mentioned who may marry, may do so ONLY for
the reason of being single, "alone", free of marriage, without a spouse - regardless
of what led to it.
Ethan, you have contradicted yourself and made a real hash of you position.
Max Burgin